Going into this, I knew there's a damn good reason why a man would come to the conclusion or necessity to pay a woman for companionship. In this particular case, it's because he is completely emotionally unstable and has very little emotional intelligence.
As I mentioned in my previous post, he started to be a little non-response one night, but mentioned he'd like to give me my space because I earlier said it's part of the agreement. The very next evening he's doing the same thing. I text him twice and then finally say "What's with the disappearing act, my friend?" HE FREAKS THE FUCK OUT and texts me "It's over! You're playing games with me, I don't have the time or energy for this. You disappoint me child!"
WOW.
I call him several times and he just hangs up and calmly have a text-conversation with him telling him it's all been a misunderstanding and that we should rationally discuss the situation. He continues to freak out and then eventually drops off the face of the earth.
Am I disappointed? Hell yes, but in many ways I think it was bound to happen eventually. After all, he's a Cancer (I'm a spiritual gold digger, guys)and the second cusp Cancers tend to be quite emotionally unstable and are seriously susceptible to emotional outbursts. This particular outburst just cost me $23K PER MONTH!
On to the next Sugar Daddy...
This Friday I'm meeting with a mid-20's Silicon Valley tech-giant who claims to make over $400k annually. He seems super, super nice and actually fun to be around. The awkward thing is that I can actually see myself legitimately dating this person. All of our conversations have been on a purely friendly level---EXACTLY like the ones I would have if I met a guy on Match.com. Not a single anything was mentioned about the fact that we met on SeekingArrangement.com and that we're both looking to make a deal. His profile says he's never been in such arrangement...neither have I. Not sure how to go about this.
Ladies, comments??
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- The Spiritual Gold Digger
- San Francisco, CA, United States
- A Eastern European, 20-something self-proclaimed spiritual gold-digger in search of obscene amounts of wealth, love and a lifetime of leisure.
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I've been blessed with both intellect and beauty. Money comes to me easily, and always has. Since turning 18 I've dated CEO's and SVP's of household brand names and the finest of Silicon Valley. Not only are these men very successful, but they're also good looking and usually looking for a wife.
What's wrong with this picture, you may ask?
I. WANT. MORE.
I want a man with obscene amounts of money and who loves what I can offer him. I realized I have two options 1) Be a high class escort; and 2) Find myself a real sugar daddy!
After talking to a so-called guru Escort Specialist in San Francisco, he offered to "manage my clients" and charge VIP rates for my time---about $3k a night, I would keep 80%. I have to admit, I seriously considered this! Five star restaurants, five star hotels and amazing sex are right up my alley, but this sounded far too much like a classic pimps'n'ho's scenario. PASS!!
Though I have decided to eventually put up a website where I, and I alone, offer myself as a travel companion for a bargain price of $20k/weekend plus all travel expenses.
This leads me to #2: Sugar Daddy, Sugar Baby scenario. I would LOVE to find a man for a perfect arrangement where I treat him like a God and in exchange, he grants all my wishes and prayers. :) The absolute ideal exchange of goods, don't you agree?
What's wrong with this picture, you may ask?
I. WANT. MORE.
I want a man with obscene amounts of money and who loves what I can offer him. I realized I have two options 1) Be a high class escort; and 2) Find myself a real sugar daddy!
After talking to a so-called guru Escort Specialist in San Francisco, he offered to "manage my clients" and charge VIP rates for my time---about $3k a night, I would keep 80%. I have to admit, I seriously considered this! Five star restaurants, five star hotels and amazing sex are right up my alley, but this sounded far too much like a classic pimps'n'ho's scenario. PASS!!
Though I have decided to eventually put up a website where I, and I alone, offer myself as a travel companion for a bargain price of $20k/weekend plus all travel expenses.
This leads me to #2: Sugar Daddy, Sugar Baby scenario. I would LOVE to find a man for a perfect arrangement where I treat him like a God and in exchange, he grants all my wishes and prayers. :) The absolute ideal exchange of goods, don't you agree?